let's have Gender Neutral Bathrooms!

Yes! Legislation has been introduced in the Massachusetts State Legislature to write gender neutral bathrooms into the building code: An Act establishing gender neutral bathrooms. That's a step forward. It would be really really awesome if it passes.

gender "other" on driver's licences

Awesome! Look at what has been introduced in the Massachusetts State Legislature: An Act relative to gender identity on Massachusetts identification. This will allow three choices for identity on driver's licenses, etc: M, F, or X. Crucially, you would not need a doctor's note to identify as "X".

I think this has a good chance this legislative cycle. Last time around the odious Jim Lyons made it a personal project to put a stop to a similar bill. Well, he has been replaced by the awesome Tram Nguyen, who I note is a co-sponsor of HD-840.