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I am considering a venue which has availability on June 7. Is that too late? Josh has already flown in from CA, and Rich Sr. has started driving to MA from FL, and everyone wants to process and talk about Rich now. Is that too soon? tcb and brother Mike have to find airfare from CA, and people have to prepare remarks and slideshow and music. Or is that just right? Or is there no good answer? So might as well do it then?

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There is no one good and absolute answer but in general "sooner" beats "later."

Not long ago a friend of mine from grad school died of cancer. His partner was not able to arrange a memorial until June, which seems like forever away. A wise person once said "Funerals are for the living."

*lots of words deleted* Do what feels right; you're carrying a lot of weight already and pleasing other people is not a weight you need to carry as well.